Domestic Violence In the Workplace

Violence in Workplace

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A new initiative of The Shelter, the “Domestic Violence In The Workplace” initiative provides employers with resources to create a Domestic Violence policy for their place of business.

Consider these statistics:

  • Seventy-four percent of battered women report being harassed by their abuser while at work.
  • There are $4.1 billion a year costs in direct healthcare expenses.
  • $900 million a year is lost related to loss in productivity.
  • Three women are murdered at work by a current or former intimate partner each week.

These statistics validate what is happening more and more each day in our workplaces. This initiative provides a rich opportunity for businesses and organizations to gain valuable knowledge to enrich the quality of the workplace and actively address any problems that affect business expenses and productivity.

For more information on Domestic Violence in the Workplace, call 239-775-3061, ext. 260 or email jyoung@naplesshelter.org

 

Avon Foundation speaks out against domestic violence

speak-out-against-domestic-violenceOn National Women’s Day, March 8, 2013, Avon Foundation for Women Ambassador Salma Hayek Pinault announced the recipients of the 2nd Avon Communications Awards: Speaking Out About Violence Against Women for their outstanding work to bring attention to the need to end violence against women.

The Shelter is grateful for the support we receive from the Avon Foundation. Below is a video series on the Foundation’s efforts to break the cycle of domestic violence.

A day without slavery

Hosted by the Collier County Sheriff’s Office, The Shelter took part in “A Day Without Slavery,” Oct. 8, 2014, at the Immokalee Sports Park. The goal of the event was to raise community awareness of the prevalence of human trafficking in Collier County. Story below – click here for pdf of this story.

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NAPLES DAILY NEWS: Deputies reach out to help versus slavery

By Liz Freeman

NAPLES, Fla. – Roberto Perez watched proudly Saturday as his two daughters enjoyed getting their faces painted at Immokalee Community Park.

The Perez family was joined by several hundred Immokalee residents for a fun-filled event with food, music, and games for kids, but with a serious message about the prevalence of human trafficking.

The Collier County sheriff’s office held its fifth annual “A Day Without Slavery” in the Immokalee park Saturday to build awareness of the growing problem and to inform residents the agency is there to help them. The event each year brings between 300 to 500 people to the park.

Perez, 40, who speaks little English, likely didn’t understand the theme of the event. He was just happy his daughters, Nori, 4, and Jeraldin, 2, were having fun.

“I like this, everything about it,” he said.

Ave Maria School of Law, which operates a human trafficking law clinic to represent victims, had an information table to talk with people about sex and labor trafficking, said Elizabeth Donovan, a professor and director of the clinic. Ave Maria law students help her represent victims.

“The problem is on the rise and phenomenally on the rise in Florida and the United States, and people don’t know,” she said. “The big rise is domestic minor sex trafficking (with) U.S. citizens, girls and boys, not just foreign nationals.”

The cases are hard because victims don’t come forward and it takes time to build trust, plus it takes time to convince victims that the sheriff’s office is more concerned about helping them and less concerned about their immigration status, she said.

Building trust is one reason why Cpl. Shawn Micciche and Sgt. David Russell, who both work in the Collier County Jail, were on hand with a pepper ball gun, which is similar to a paint gun, and protective gear like a bullet proof vest, helmet and shield. They spoke with kids and let them try on the gear.

“It’s just so they know we are not the bad guys,” Russell said.

Miami-based attorney Jorge De La Mar purchased 40 pizzas and soft drinks to help spread the word that he opened an office in Immokalee in January and represents human trafficking victims. He’s attended the event in prior years.

“I think it’s awesome,” he said. “But it breaks my heart. I didn’t know there was so much need.”

Last September, the sheriff’s office established a human trafficking unit with a full-time detective and full-time victim advocate, said Sgt. Wade Williams, who heads up the unit.

The problem of trafficking isn’t any worse in Immokalee than elsewhere in the county, but there is an issue of labor trafficking due to some in the area who are not in the country legally, he said.

“Human trafficking is modern-day slavery. It is not the same thing as human smuggling,” he said, adding that it does not require the transportation of a person anywhere. “It’s sex trafficking, or forced prostitution, or labor trafficking.”

The sheriff’s office has had more than 20 sex trafficking cases this year, with a handful of arrests, and there have not been any labor trafficking cases.

“But that doesn’t mean it isn’t there,” he said.

The victims are vulnerable because of bad home environments or they are runaways, which make them susceptible. The traffickers exploit them and use coercion, like taking sexual pictures of them and threatening to publish the photos, or getting them hooked on drugs and withholding drugs, Williams said.

“The message is people need to be aware this is an issue,” he said. “Exploitation is often hidden in plain sight.”

Protecting the whole family

Capture2Tragically, pets often become pawns batterers use to control their victims.

Abusers threaten, harm and kill pets to:

  • Exert power and control over family members
  • Further isolate their victims
  • Teach submission
  • Demonstrate what will happen to family members should they disobey or try to leave the abusive relationship

Thank you to the Collier Citizen for a great story on our Protect Your Pets Program – READ MORE

Seacrest donates to The Shelter

Thank you to the Seacrest Country Day School Key Club for their donation of $300 to The Shelter. Accepting the check is The  Shelter Executive Assistant Karen Harmon.

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Get organized and get bikes for Shelter kids

Thank you to professional organizer Marla Ottenstein for her support for The Shelter! All proceeds from her Nov. 13 seminar will go to purchase brand new bikes for the children who will be in residence during the holiday season. Please join us in making their Christmas and Hanukkah a little bit nicer.

Be sure to make your reservations early for this fast-paced, informative and motivating seminar on “How to Organize Your Closets & Dress Like a French Woman (or Man)!” Thursday, November 13th at 6 pm at Dagny’s Spirits in the Pebblebrooke Center (corner of Immokalee & 951. A $20 advance registration fee is required. Seating is limited.

For more information on Marla to go Professional Organizer Florida

For more information on the workshop, CLICK HERE

FGCU outreach

The Shelter, along with Abuse Counseling and Treatment (ACT) and Gender Equality organizations held booths at Florida Gulf Coast University’s Veterans Pavilion, Oct. 29, 2014, to raise awareness and offer information on programs and services.

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Haitian Immigration Fair & Forum

As part of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, The Shelter sponsored an Haitian Immigration Fair/Forum, Oct. 26at Church of Nazarene on Bayshore Drive in Naples. The forum drew more than 125 attendees including three immigration officers who provided information about Violence Against Woman Act (VAWA) and other topics.

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Fox 4 Morning Blend

Thank you to Fox 4 Morning Blend, for hosting members of The Shelter’s staff on your show each week during October’s Domestic Violence Awareness Month. View all five videos of the shows.

Immokalee Children’s Fair & Peace March

More than 300 people turned out for the 15th Annual Immokalee Children’s Fair and Peace March, Oct. 27, sponsored by The Shelter for Abused Women & Children. Co-sponsors for the event included Lozano’s Restaurant, Fiesta Tents, the Collier County Sheriff’s Office and Collier County Parks and Recreation. Spread across the field at the Immokalee Sports Complex, the fair included games and booths featuring more than 20 community partners. The events were The Shelter’s final outreach during October’s Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

Sergio Lopez, a Gentle’men Against Domestic Violence advocate, led over 100 march participants escorted by Collier County Sheriff’s Office as the procession made its way through town from the Sports Complex to Main Street and back. This was the first year that the march was led by a male advocate.

“Once again, we had a great turnout for the fair as well as the march,” said Josie Means, Immokalee Outreach Manager. “This kind of participation really validates Immokalee’s support for The Shelter’s mission to prevent, protect and prevail over domestic violence so that every home can be a safe haven for the family it shelters.”

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Thank you Wilford & Lee

A big thank you to Wilford & Lee Home Accents stores in Naples and Bonita Springs. On Sunday, Nov. 9, the stores will be hosting an Open House and 5 percent of the Bonita sales and 10 percent of the Naples sales will be benefit The Shelter for Abused Women & Children.

Bonita store – US 41 and Timber Wilde Drive – (239)947-9352

Naples store – US 41 at Vanderbilt Beach Road – (239) 514-424

For more information, go to www.wilfordandlee.com

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Domestic Violence Awareness Month 2014

DVAM 2014 Mercato Goes Purple

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Everyone has a role in preventing abuse

Relatively new to The Shelter’s programming, Neighbors, Friends and Families is a campaign of awareness of the signs of abuse so that people who are close to a victim can help.

You may have some concerns about helping this person. Maybe you feel it is none of your business or you don’t really know what to say. You may worry that you will make things worse or maybe the situation is not all that bad after all. You may be concerned that the violence will turn to you or your family. Perhaps you think the survivor doesn’t really want to leave the abuser because she keeps going back.  Maybe you believe that if this person wanted help, she would ask for it or you think it is a private matter and not your business.

All of these concerns as legitimate but you should also consider:

  • It could be a matter of life or death
  • Doing nothing could make things worse
  • Your loved one may be too afraid and/or ashamed to ask for some help
  • She doesn’t have any resources

If you are concerned, here are a few warning signs:

  • Abuser puts the victim down
  • Abuser checks on the victim all the time, even at work
  • Abuser lies and blames the survivor for everything
  • Abuser has no respect for the law
  • Abuser acts like a victim
  • Victim is nervous around the abuser
  • Victim has unexplained injuries
  • Victim doesn’t have access to a phone or money
  • Victim seems sad, lonely, withdrawn and afraid

How you can help:

You must be patient and reassure the victim that you are there and will listen without judgment. Validate her feelings and encourage her to keep important documents in a safe place. Offer to accompany her to court, to a doctor etc. Encourage the victim not to confront her abuser as it will increase the violence. Tell her that you believe her and that she did not create this and is not responsible of this abusive situation.

If the victim is in denial, mention what you have noticed. Tell her that you are concerned for her safety and that she needs to seek help at The Shelter. Let her know that you take these warning signs seriously and that she should, too.

Above all, do not try to force the survivor to do something she is not ready to do. Remember, deciding to leave an abusive relationship is not our decision to make, but the survivor’s only.

For more information on the Neighbors, Friends and Families program, call The Shelter at 239-775-3862 or email ldescoteaux@naplesshelter.org.

No More!

EAST RUTHERFORD, N.J. (AP) — New York Giants quarterback Eli Manning is among nearly two dozen current and former NFL players appearing in a new series of public service announcements denouncing domestic violence and sexual assault.

Officials of the No More Project said Wednesday that the players will appear in video and print PSAs to shed light on the issues. Several had personal experiences with the issues, including Troy Vincent, an NFL executive whose mother is a survivor of domestic violence and Pittsburgh cornerback William Gay, whose mother was killed by an abusive partner.

Celebrities, athletes, corporate sponsors and others donated resources for the spots. The new video PSAs will premiere during “Thursday Night Football” this week when the San Diego Chargers play the Denver Broncos.

Previous spots from the group have aired more than 27,000 times nationwide since September 2013, in addition to being shown during the past 4 weeks of NFL game broadcasts.

CCPS Head Start proud in purple!

Sending a big thank you to the Collier Public School’s Head Start staff for showing their support by wearing purple during Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Together, we can prevent, protect and prevail over domestic violence through advocacy, empowerment and social change.

To find out how you can help – call 239.775.3862

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NextGen Purple Party 2014

NextGen’s Purple Party at Ridgway’s Bar & Grill was a great time for a good cause – October 3, 2014

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DVAM flash mob takes on Naples

Thanks to Nancy and Hank Fowler for putting together this fabulous video on our Domestic Violence Awareness Month Flash Mobs, which were performed all over the Naples area on Oct. 15, 2014. We had a great time and were joined by many other volunteers and community members as we work to prevent, protect and prevail over domestic violence in Collier County.

Bikers Bringing Awareness Ride 2014

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Domestic Violence Awareness Month Flash Mobs

After months of dance practice, we had a great time raising public awareness of domestic violence, Oct. 15, conducting flash mobs throughout the Naples area. In some locations we were joined by members of the public who had learned the dance on their own. Even our trolley driver joined in! Enjoy a video of our performance at Mercato.