Healthy Relationships at Oakridge Middle School
Thank you to Oakridge Middle School for allowing our advocate Sandra Hack to present our Healthy Relationships program to their students. It is through outreach and education that The Shelter hopes to prevent abuse before it begins.
At least one out of every four teens is involved in a dating violence relationship by the time they leave high school. The objective of the Teen Healthy Relationships program is to facilitate dating violence primary prevention presentations for middle and high school students, ultimately changing the attitudes, beliefs and behaviors of adolescent boys and girls and reducing the occurrence of violence against women.
Since 2009, The Shelter’s Teen Healthy Relationship program has provided students the opportunity to learn facts about the different types of abuse, the dynamics of dating violence, characteristics of unhealthy and healthy relationships, and how to set boundaries in a relationship. They also learn about ways to help friends involved in abusive relationship and how to create a safety plan.
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Congratulations to Berta Garcia and Jenny Theodore
The Shelter is proud to honor Berta Garcia as Employee of the Quarter and recognize Jenny Theodore for five years of service.
Jenny serves The Shelter as a Child Care Advocate, nurturing children of Shelter residents and staff.
Berta was honored for her advocacy with The Shelter’s InVEST program. Her nomination reads:
Berta is a wonderful advocate who always provide her participants with the best advocacy available. She navigates complex relationships with law enforcement with ease and has formed such strong professional partnerships across three agencies, that we can truly feel as though they are partners at our table of advocacy.
Berta often deals with high lethality victims and their cases on her days off and on holidays and she is forever providing them with the best care possible. She works daily in domestic homicide prevention and does it with grace patience, composure and honesty. Berta embodies the values of social workers and of an advocate at all times and she is always willing to go above and beyond for her team and her participants. She is a wonderful colleague and co-worker, she is diligent, reliable, professional and she is a fierce advocate for what she believes is right. She has a life-long commitment to social justice and equality and has worked to ensure the safety and service of our participants.
Congratulations to both of these exceptional women!
Dynamic Drawing during Mending Broken Hearts Luncheon
From Washington insiders to national designer boutiques, The Shelter for Abused Women & Children’s Mending Broken Hearts with Hope Luncheon will have something for every interest, Mar. 12-13, at The Ritz-Carlton Golf Resort, Naples.
Now in its 15th year, the Luncheon attracts more than 700 attendees annually. Highlights of the two-day event will be a Silent Auction featuring over a hundred items from area restaurants, spas and businesses, and a Dynamic Drawing for a 24-month lease of a 2015 Mercedes E350 Sport Sedan from Mercedes Benz of Naples OR $1,000 Saks Fifth Avenue gift certificate . Tickets are available online or by calling the shelter at 239-775-3862, ext. 261. The drawing will be held during the luncheon, winners need not be present to win.
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The Designer Boutique, showcasing vendors from across the country, will run from 9 a.m.-5 p.m., Thursday, Mar. 12, and 9 a.m. -4 p.m., Friday, Mar. 13.
Featured speaker for the luncheon will be Lynn Rosenthal, White House Advisor on Violence Against Women. Ms. Rosenthal was Executive Director and President of the National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) from 2000-2006, has led state domestic violence coalitions in Florida and New Mexico and has also served as executive director of a local domestic violence shelter in North Florida.
“We are so excited to have Ms. Rosenthal with us this year,” said Gwyn Sanford, chair of the 2015 Mending Broken Hearts Luncheon. “Her experience, both at the national and state level, is amazing and we look forward to her presentation.”
Assisting Sanford are Vice Chairs Candy Raveis and Bev Haas.
Chico’s FAS, Inc., Arthrex, Inc. and Gwyn and Bill Sanford are the founding and signature sponsors for this year’s luncheon. Tickets are $350 per person with sponsorship opportunities still available. Please contact Susan Utz at 239-775-3862, ext. 261 or email sutz@naplesshelter.org
Proceeds from the Mending Broken Hearts luncheon, a signature fundraising event, will benefit The Shelter’s mission to protect, prevent and prevail over domestic violence through advocacy, empowerment and social change.
Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Parade 2015
The Shelter turned out to celebrate the accomplishments of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and his dream of freedom for all. The Shelter’s dream is a community free from domestic violence so that every home is a safe haven for the family it shelters. Join us!
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The Shelter’s Tamika Seaton on Fox 4 Morning Blend!
Our Senior Development Officer Tamika Seaton discusses the Gentle’men Against Domestic Violence® (GADV) initiative on Fox 4’s Morning Blend.
CLICK HERE to buy your Men’s Tailgate Party tickets – 4:30 p.m., Monday, Feb. 2, at Bay Colony Golf Club!
CLICK HERE for more information on the GADV initiative.
Ready… Set… Go! Men’s Tailgate Party at Bay Colony
Help support Gentle’men Against Domestic Violence and The Shelter’s mission to “Prevent, Protect, and Prevail” over domestic violence by attending this year’s
Men’s Tailgate Party at Bay Colony Golf Club
4:30 pm, Monday, February 2, 2015
Last year’s event was a huge success. In addition to providing support for The Shelter’s mission, you will enjoy sports contests, cocktails and social interaction in the music lounge, outstanding food and fine wines. Keynote speaker Lt. Mark Wynn, a child survivor of domestic violence, will share his story of how he helped form the largest Domestic Crime Unit in the nation.
Tickets are $250 per person PURCHASE TICKETS ONLINE
Please RSVP by Monday, January 26 – call Tamika at 239-775-3862 ext. 217 or email tseaton@naplesshelter.org
Kick Off February with a Free Second Cup of Coffee
Kick Off February with a Free Second Cup of Coffee – and by Giving Back – with Second Cup’s “Caffe Sospeso” Campaign
Guests Will Receive Free Refills on Hot or Iced Coffee, and Can “Pay It Forward” by Donating the Spare Change to The Shelter for Abused Women & Children
NAPLES, Fla. (January 13, 2015) – At Second Cup, a free second cup of coffee can become an opportunity to make a difference. “Perk” up the first week of February with a free second cup of hot or iced coffee or tea at Second Cup Mercato, and then you can make a difference by donating the typical cost of a refill to Second Cup’s “caffe sospeso” fundraising campaign.
During the week of February 1st–7th, customers at Second Cup Mercato will enjoy free refills of hot or iced coffee or tea – usually just 75 cents – and will be invited to “pay it forward” by donating the cost of the 75-cent refill to support The Shelter for Abused Women & Children. The campaign is inspired by the “Caffe sospeso,” or “suspended coffee” tradition, which dates back more than a century in Naples, Italy, where people who experienced good luck would buy a second cup of coffee to be put aside for those in need. Today, European cafes have adapted the practice by donating the collected funds for the “suspended coffees” to a charitable organization. Second Cup hosted its first “caffe sospeso” last July.
One hundred percent of donations will benefit The Shelter for Abused Women & Children, whose mission is leading the community to prevent, protect and prevail over domestic violence through advocacy, empowerment and social change.
Shelter Advocate featured in award-winning video
The Shelter is proud to announce that a video created by the Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence, featuring our Elder Abuse Advocate Vickijo Letchworth has been named Best of Show in the 2014 Aurora Awards.
Our thanks to Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Schwartz, whose support makes it possible for The Shelter to assist victims of elder abuse in our community.
Elders are often abused by a spouse, partner, adult child, caregiver, or other family member. This program focuses on providing seniors with knowledge on elder abuse, emotional support, customized safety planning, direct services, community referrals, transportation, and legal advocacy. It is instrumental in educating the community, raising awareness and decreasing the rates of elder abuse, in turn, increasing the quality of life of many elders. Click here for more information.
The Aurora Award is an international competition designed to recognize excellence in international, independent, corporate, multi-media and education film and videos. To view all of the 2014 winners, go to www.AuroraAwards.com.
Congratulations to the FCADV as well as Vickijo for her exceptional work with victims of elder abuse.
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NextGen Meeting January 21
Title: NextGen Meeting
Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2015
Time: 5:30 pm
Location: Brown & Brown Insurance, 1421 Pine Ridge Road, Ste. 200, Naples
Meeting Topic: Planning for the 2015 Fit ‘n Fun Field Day Unplugged
Next Gen’s Mission: The Shelter’s Next Generation Committee is a diverse group of young individuals committed to expanding and deepening the support base of The Shelter for Abused Women & Children by “friend raising” and cultivating a next generation of support to provide increased awareness, sustainability and leadership succession for the organization.
Want to become a member or attend the meeting? Please contact Tamika Seaton, Senior Development Officer, at 239-775-3862 ext. 217 or email Tamika at Tseaton@naplesshelter.org.
Girl Scouts coupon for The Shelter
NAPLES DAILY NEWS – Neapolitan Section, January 3, 2015
By Kelly Farrell

Local Girl Scouts Addie Boliek, 9, and Hailey Collins, 8, at center, pose for a photo with family members after delivering their Brownie troop’s donated goods to the Shelter for Abused Women and Children on Dec. 18, 2014. Kelley Sartori, Collins’ grandmother (second from right), is an avid coupon clipper with a book coming out soon on the subject.
A Naples resident found a way to collect coupons for a cause.
Kelley Sartori, 51, turned what some find tedious and time- consuming into an opportunity to give — one that benefitted The Shelter for Abused Women and Children and taught math skills to a group of Girl Scouts.
Sartori’s daughter, Jocelynn Collins, who is a troop leader, and Sartori’s granddaughter, Hailey Collins, 8, were among the first to get together to learn about couponing and potentially earn badges while improving math skills. The troop also learned finance and organizational skills through couponing.
“My granddaughter loves to go couponing with me. She works her own deals,” Sartori said.
The girls and Sartori began gathering their donation — collected and expanded through coupon clipping — in the months before the December holidays. Sartori collected cash donations from colleagues and friends. She then made a small cash contribution totaling just less than $100 in cash. Sartori was able to purchase more than $400 worth of goods for less than $100 because of all the coupons she and the girls gathered, organized and calculated. The donation was delivered just before Christmas to a full shelter.
“This was pretty unique. It’s not something we’ve seen here before. It’s very creative and it shows everyone in our community can make a difference,” said Linda Oberhaus, executive director for The Shelter for Abused Women & Children in Naples.
The donation, made up largely of food gathered through coupons, fit a great need and came at a perfect time, Oberhaus added.
There are about 60 people in the shelter now, including 27 children, all being fed breakfast, lunch and dinner. Adding up to about 180 meals served daily, food is something the shelter goes through, she said.
NO LONGER A NOVICE
Sartori became so good at using coupons that she has actually made money while shopping.
“The largest amount I made was $40. My husband, Tony, he says he doesn’t want to go shopping with me. When I got that $40 back, he said: ‘Now, I get it,’ ” Sartori recalled.
She jokes about the couple’s shopping style challenges.
“I don’t want to walk out of the house without a coupon. If he starts just throwing things into the buggy and it’s something I had the coupon for…,” Sartori trails off.
The savvy shopper has saved thousands each year and became a backup pantry to her nearby adult children when they need quick supplies. However, those couponing skills took time to develop, she said.
“About three to four years ago, I just wanted to know if I could do it. The first couple times at the register were horrifying experiences. I didn’t know the coupon policies. In the beginning, it took hours to do it,” Sartori said.
After gaining experience and saving hundreds each month for her family and extended family, she decided to put together a book, “Coupons Decoded,” and a website so that others can skip the challenges she faced and launch right into savings with coupons.
Andi Boliek, a Naples resident and one of Sartori’s co-workers at a Naples chiropractic office, is eager for the website. Boliek’s daughter, Addison, also a Girl Scout, took to couponing quickly with Sartori. Boliek seeks to gain more skills to make the process more efficient for her family’s savings long-term.
“Addison was excited and thought it was neat. She was excited to do the cutting. Addison says: ‘Let’s go! I want to cut more coupons,'” Boliek said.
Boliek said it’s still too time-consuming for her. She is waiting for Sartori’s website, www.CouponDecoded.Cash, to fully launch, so that she can just copy the deals Sartori has found.
“I’d like to learn how to do the couponing, too. I just don’t think I have the time to sit and get organized, but (Sartori) is great at it. It would help me to figure out how to sort it out,” said Boliek.
GOING PUBLIC
Sartori has partnered with local publisher and marketing firm, GT5, which was recently in a three-day workshop with other businesses across the nation, and, of the group participating, GT5 was voted most likely to become the next million-dollar or multi-million-dollar business.
GT5 is publishing Sartori’s book, “Coupons Decoded: Clipping Your Way to Wealth Through Savings,” which will become available for the first time at an event celebrating GT5’s success. The event is the Celebration for World Champion Millionaire Maker Party, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m., Jan. 22, at GT5 publishers in VentureX, Mercato, 9128 Strada Place. Sartori will also sell the book through her website.
In the meantime, Sartori offered these quick couponing tips:
- “Stack,” or piggyback, coupons from individual stores with manufacturer coupons.
- Use coupons on trial or travel sizes, when permitted, to get them free or at minimal cost.
- Use price matching from other stores to get the lowest price where you’re shopping, and then apply coupons after the price match.
- Use manufacturer coupons at dollar stores.
- Use coupons on clearance items.
- Stock up on non-perishables.
Flying high with Eagle Riders
The Shelter would like to thank the Eagle Riders of FOE 4028 for their financial donation of $2,380 and collection of hundreds of items from The Shelter’s holiday wish list.
Eagle Riders is a group of Fraternal Order of Eagles member motorcyclists who promote the Eagles and its causes, while doing something that they love – riding motorcycles. Their mission is to have fun in a family oriented organization dedicated to the enjoyment of motorcycles, safe riding, while promoting the Fraternal Order of Eagles.
The group is highly involved in aerie and auxiliary functions, poker runs, fundraisers, and local, state and international charity programs supported by the Fraternal Order of Eagles.
Eagle Riders offer members another way to get involved and be more active in their aerie or auxiliary. Eagle Riders has succeeded at attracting younger members to the organization as well, proving to be the fastest growing “club within a club” in the Fraternal Order of Eagles.
For more information on the local chapter, call 239-455-6670.

From left, Jane Parideau, David Katinsley, Dale Gossett, Virginia Katinsley, Shelter Volunteer Coordinator Jamie Garry, Dan Cole and Options Thrift Shoppe Manager John Cruz.
AKC sends gifts for four-legged friends
Thanks to the American Kennel Club, our four-legged shelter residents had a happy holiday with WOOFipedia Christmas stockings for each dog. We are grateful to the AKC for its financial support that allows our residents to bring their pets with them when they enter the Emergency Shelter.
For more information on The Shelter’s kennel and how you can help CLICK HERE
Marco Island Police Department sponsors family
Thank you to the Marco Island Police Department for sponsoring a Shelter family for the holidays. Thanks to your kindness, this family will have a brighter holiday season. Below, Naples Police Chief and Shelter Board Member Tom Weschler, left, joined Shelter Executive Director Linda Oberhaus in thanking MIPD Chief Al Schettino and his staff.

Naples Police Chief Tom Weschler, Shelter Executive Director Linda Oberhaus and Marco Island Police Chief Al Schettino.
Bluebird Cottage opens
A ribbon cutting for Bluebird Cottage, The Shelter’s sixth Transitional Housing cottage, was held Dec. 18, 2014. View the Video below.
Since 2008 The Shelter’s Transitional Housing (TH) program has provided safe, affordable, and supportive transitional housing for survivors of domestic violence and their children who are facing homelessness. It is the goal of Transitional Housing to maintain an empowerment-based, safe and secure living environment for domestic violence survivors.
The Shelter’s Transitional Housing program is comprised of six cottages where residents can live for up to 24 months with an array of supportive services. Prior to entry, adult residents meet with the TH Advocate to create individual service plans. Additionally, a weekly meeting schedule and participation in the weekly life skills group is coordinated. Service plan goals typically include increasing income, decreasing public assistance, and developing skills and abilities which empower the individual to build hope for the future; self sustain, and obtain permanent violence-free housing.
Click Here for more information on the Cottages and how you can get involved or contact Gissa Infante – ginfante@naplesshelter.org, 239-775-3862 ext. 224.
Roberts newest member of The Shelter Board
Marco Island resident Carole Roberts recently joined the Board of Directors for The Shelter for Abused Women & Children.
Robert’s professional background includes extensive experience in the field of governmental affairs at the national and corporate levels. She was employed with the U.S. Department of Labor and the President’s Commission on Pension Policy and later served as vice president of federal government relations for Citigroup, Inc.
Roberts is a member of the Greater Naples Leadership Masters Class XIX and is active in the Marco Island community. She currently serves on the Board of the Marco Island Historical Society and is a founding member of the new Cultural Alliance of Marco Island and Goodland. Carole served on the Veterans Memorial Fundraising Committee, the Traveling Vietnam Wall Committee, and the original “Big Flag” Committee.
In 2012, Carole participated in Leadership Marco. She has also been a Board member of the Marco Island Center for the Arts and the Newcomers Women’s Club; and was appointed by the Marco City Council to its first Arts Advisory Committee.
“Carole’s governmental expertise and involvement in the Marco Island community will be invaluable to The Shelter,” said Linda Oberhaus, executive director. “We are excited to have her join our board of directors.”
Roberts is a member of the Jewish Congregation of Marco Island. She and her husband Steve have two daughters, three grandchildren and two Tibetan Terriers.
About The Shelter for Abused Women & Children
The Shelter, Collier County’s only certified domestic violence center, is leading the community to prevent, protect and prevail over domestic violence through advocacy, empowerment and social change. Since 1989, the nonprofit organization has served more than 68,000 children, women, men and their pets. To help provide a solution to end violence at home and in our communities, go to www.naplesshelter.org.
The Shelter has received the coveted 4-start rating by independent charity evaluator Charity Navigator for the fourth consecutive year.