IMG_5204The Shelter is grateful to The Brookdale Foundation for its support for our Elder Abuse Program.

The Elder Abuse Response program was established in 2006 to identify victims of abuse in later life. Abuse in later life can include physical abuse, neglect, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, verbal abuse and financial exploitation. Elders are often abused by a spouse, partner, adult child, caregiver, or other family member.  This program focuses on providing seniors with knowledge on elder abuse, emotional support, customized safety planning, direct services, community referrals, transportation, and legal advocacy. It is instrumental in educating the community, raising awareness and decreasing the rates of elder abuse, in turn, increasing the quality of life of many elders.

An Elder Abuse Response Advocate has been specifically trained to work with elders.  She assists abused elders as they deal with shame, hopelessness, physical ailments, and economic stress that often negatively influence their ability to seek services. She also continually develops and maintains relationships with community agencies that are involved with the elder population to bridge service gaps. Abuse in later life is a complex problem that requires community collaboration, community education, and individual services to fully support the victim.

In 2013-2014:

  • 80 elders were supported by advocacy and counseling
  • Held 42 support and pet therapy groups
  • Held 18 elder abuse community presentations and educational booths
  • Volunteers have been specifically trained to assist the program in many facets. They facilitate a support group for survivors and help to increase awareness of elder abuse in the community.

Statements from participants in the Elder Abuse Response Program

“Thank you so much, where would my pet and I have been if not for the Elder Abuse Response program and The Shelter.” 

“This program has made a huge difference in making my move easier.  A big weight has been lifted off my shoulders.  I now have the peace and quiet I so desperately needed.” 

“Before I lived in total fear for my life, since January both my little pet and I thank you deeply and sincerely.”

Statements from community partners that have taken part in an Elder Abuse Response presentation

“Our residents were very fortunate to have the opportunity to meet you and hear about your greatly needed service. I have been told by many residents that your statistics provided a helpful basis for your excellent program which was enjoyed by all.”   

“We appreciate all you are doing to educate the public and your peers.” 

“Thank you so much for presenting information about The Shelter’s Elder Abuse Response program to our ministry group.  We learned so much.”

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The Vineyards Women’s 18 Hole Golf Association held its annual charity golf day, March 3rd 2015, to benefit The Shelter for Abused Women & Children.

At time of writing, the grand total raised was $23,040, an all-time record. In addition, a large contribution was collected for The Shelter’s food bank, and three significant corporate donations of goods were made directly to The Shelter.

Over 70 lady golfers played the Vineyards South Course, competed for prizes, and brought their generosity with them. Donations, auction bids, raffle tickets, hole sponsorships, and a food drive were all part of the fund-raising efforts.

Over 50 external (local and national) businesses and service providers, and employees of the Club, also contributed.

At luncheon following golf, Rebecca Thompson, Stewardship Manager at the Shelter, reviewed The Shelter’s activities, explaining the depth and breadth of the services they provide, from accommodations to counseling to outreach and more. The Shelter, a 501(c)3 registered charity, receives no county funding and so fund-raisers like this one form an important part of  their budget.

10898093_10153051243877268_1175870276103072411_nThank You to The Pink Slipper Project for their gifts of hand-knitted and crocheted washcloths, pet blankets, slippers and children’s booties and hats for our Shelter participants. These wonderful ladies donated 220 items, valued at $2,440.

For more information on The Pink Slipper Project – click here!

Saks collection

Saks volunteers and helpers manned the collection truck during the March 5-6 event, which brought in hundreds of new and gently used items for The Shelter’s Options Thrift Shoppe.

Thank you to Saks Fifth Avenue for sponsoring the Drop, Donate, Dip for Dollars event, March 5-6, at their store in the Waterside Shops.

The event collected hundreds of new or gently used clothing, handbags, shoes and accessories for The Shelter’s Options Thrift Shoppe.

In addition to the donations, The Shelter appreciates:

  1. The education and awareness that was created during the Drop, Donate, Dip for Dollars Sales event on March 5th and 6th.
  2. The fabulous opportunity to receive high quality donations for Options
  3. Saks Fifth Avenue’s generosity in providing gift cards and a special raffle for those who participated in the event

 

 

You did it!

Give Where You Live 30 was a huge success. The Community Foundation of Collier County raised $1,815,317.78 in 24 hours for its first-ever giving day in Collier County.

Thousands of people in Collier County came together online to support 30 selected nonprofit organizations in our community. Donations were matched at $300,000 by the Community Foundation and the Richard M. Schulze Family Foundation.

The Shelter received over $28,800 before matching funds – thank you to everyone who donated!!

See final results for all 30 agencies.

BEstThe Women of The Tarpon Club at Fiddler’s Creek (a beach and boating club) raised just under $500 for The Shelter during their Ladies’ Luncheon, Feb. 9, 2015. From left, Kim Frangos, Angele Sarkar, Jennifer Rankine and Aga Edwards.

Volunteers with Covenant Presbyterian’s Project Serve rolled up their sleeves and put their green thumbs to work on Valentines Day, Feb. 14, to spread mulch here at The Shelter. The mission of Project Service is to live out the vision of Covenant Church of Naples I PCA: Reaching out in mercy – to our local communities through thoughtful and freely given acts of service.

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Thank you to J. McLaughlin for supporting The Shelter with this fun Sip & Shop Preview of their Spring Collection!
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Kick Off February with a Free Second Cup of Coffee – and by Giving Back – with Second Cup’s “Caffe Sospeso” Campaign 

Guests Will Receive Free Refills on Hot or Iced Coffee, and Can “Pay It Forward” by Donating the Spare Change to The Shelter for Abused Women & Children 

NAPLES, Fla. (January 13, 2015) – At Second Cup, a free second cup of coffee can become an opportunity to make a difference. “Perk” up the first week of February with a free second cup of hot or iced coffee or tea at Second Cup Mercato, and then you can make a difference by donating the typical cost of a refill to Second Cup’s “caffe sospeso” fundraising campaign.

During the week of February 1st–7th, customers at Second Cup Mercato will enjoy free refills of hot or iced coffee or tea – usually just 75 cents – and will be invited to “pay it forward” by donating the cost of the 75-cent refill to support The Shelter for Abused Women & Children.  The campaign is inspired by the “Caffe sospeso,” or “suspended coffee” tradition, which dates back more than a century in Naples, Italy, where people who experienced good luck would buy a second cup of coffee to be put aside for those in need.  Today, European cafes have adapted the practice by donating the collected funds for the “suspended coffees” to a charitable organization.  Second Cup hosted its first “caffe sospeso” last July.

One hundred percent of donations will benefit The Shelter for Abused Women & Children, whose mission is leading the community to prevent, protect and prevail over domestic violence through advocacy, empowerment and social change.

NAPLES DAILY NEWS – Neapolitan Section, January 3, 2015

By Kelly Farrell

Scouts deliver goods

Local Girl Scouts Addie Boliek, 9, and Hailey Collins, 8, at center, pose for a photo with family members after delivering their Brownie troop’s donated goods to the Shelter for Abused Women and Children on Dec. 18, 2014. Kelley Sartori, Collins’ grandmother (second from right), is an avid coupon clipper with a book coming out soon on the subject.

A Naples resident found a way to collect coupons for a cause.

Kelley Sartori, 51, turned what some find tedious and time- consuming into an opportunity to give — one that benefitted The Shelter for Abused Women and Children and taught math skills to a group of Girl Scouts.

Sartori’s daughter, Jocelynn Collins, who is a troop leader, and Sartori’s granddaughter, Hailey Collins, 8, were among the first to get together to learn about couponing and potentially earn badges while improving math skills. The troop also learned finance and organizational skills through couponing.

“My granddaughter loves to go couponing with me. She works her own deals,” Sartori said.

The girls and Sartori began gathering their donation — collected and expanded through coupon clipping — in the months before the December holidays. Sartori collected cash donations from colleagues and friends. She then made a small cash contribution totaling just less than $100 in cash. Sartori was able to purchase more than $400 worth of goods for less than $100 because of all the coupons she and the girls gathered, organized and calculated. The donation was delivered just before Christmas to a full shelter.

“This was pretty unique. It’s not something we’ve seen here before. It’s very creative and it shows everyone in our community can make a difference,” said Linda Oberhaus, executive director for The Shelter for Abused Women & Children in Naples.

The donation, made up largely of food gathered through coupons, fit a great need and came at a perfect time, Oberhaus added.

There are about 60 people in the shelter now, including 27 children, all being fed breakfast, lunch and dinner. Adding up to about 180 meals served daily, food is something the shelter goes through, she said.

NO LONGER A NOVICE

Sartori became so good at using coupons that she has actually made money while shopping.

“The largest amount I made was $40. My husband, Tony, he says he doesn’t want to go shopping with me. When I got that $40 back, he said: ‘Now, I get it,’ ” Sartori recalled.

She jokes about the couple’s shopping style challenges.

“I don’t want to walk out of the house without a coupon. If he starts just throwing things into the buggy and it’s something I had the coupon for…,” Sartori trails off.

The savvy shopper has saved thousands each year and became a backup pantry to her nearby adult children when they need quick supplies. However, those couponing skills took time to develop, she said.

“About three to four years ago, I just wanted to know if I could do it. The first couple times at the register were horrifying experiences. I didn’t know the coupon policies. In the beginning, it took hours to do it,” Sartori said.

After gaining experience and saving hundreds each month for her family and extended family, she decided to put together a book, “Coupons Decoded,” and a website so that others can skip the challenges she faced and launch right into savings with coupons.

Andi Boliek, a Naples resident and one of Sartori’s co-workers at a Naples chiropractic office, is eager for the website. Boliek’s daughter, Addison, also a Girl Scout, took to couponing quickly with Sartori. Boliek seeks to gain more skills to make the process more efficient for her family’s savings long-term.

“Addison was excited and thought it was neat. She was excited to do the cutting. Addison says: ‘Let’s go! I want to cut more coupons,'” Boliek said.

Boliek said it’s still too time-consuming for her. She is waiting for Sartori’s website, www.CouponDecoded.Cash, to fully launch, so that she can just copy the deals Sartori has found.

“I’d like to learn how to do the couponing, too. I just don’t think I have the time to sit and get organized, but (Sartori) is great at it. It would help me to figure out how to sort it out,” said Boliek.

GOING PUBLIC

Sartori has partnered with local publisher and marketing firm, GT5, which was recently in a three-day workshop with other businesses across the nation, and, of the group participating, GT5 was voted most likely to become the next million-dollar or multi-million-dollar business.

GT5 is publishing Sartori’s book, “Coupons Decoded: Clipping Your Way to Wealth Through Savings,” which will become available for the first time at an event celebrating GT5’s success. The event is the Celebration for World Champion Millionaire Maker Party, 5:30 to 8:30 p.m., Jan. 22, at GT5 publishers in VentureX, Mercato, 9128 Strada Place. Sartori will also sell the book through her website.

In the meantime, Sartori offered these quick couponing tips:

  • “Stack,” or piggyback, coupons from individual stores with manufacturer coupons.
  • Use coupons on trial or travel sizes, when permitted, to get them free or at minimal cost.
  • Use price matching from other stores to get the lowest price where you’re shopping, and then apply coupons after the price match.
  • Use manufacturer coupons at dollar stores.
  • Use coupons on clearance items.
  • Stock up on non-perishables.

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The Shelter would like to thank the Eagle Riders of FOE 4028 for their financial donation of $2,380 and collection of hundreds of items from The Shelter’s holiday wish list.

Eagle Riders is a group of Fraternal Order of Eagles member motorcyclists who promote the Eagles and its causes, while doing something that they love – riding motorcycles. Their mission is to have fun in a family oriented organization dedicated to the enjoyment of motorcycles, safe riding, while promoting the Fraternal Order of Eagles.

The group is highly involved in aerie and auxiliary functions, poker runs, fundraisers, and local, state and international charity programs supported by the Fraternal Order of Eagles.

Eagle Riders offer members another way to get involved and be more active in their aerie or auxiliary. Eagle Riders has succeeded at attracting younger members to the organization as well, proving to be the fastest growing “club within a club” in the Fraternal Order of Eagles.

For more information on the local chapter, call 239-455-6670.

Eagle Riders benefit

From left, Jane Parideau, David Katinsley, Dale Gossett, Virginia Katinsley, Shelter Volunteer Coordinator Jamie Garry, Dan Cole and Options Thrift Shoppe Manager John Cruz.

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Thanks to the American Kennel Club, our four-legged shelter residents had a happy holiday with WOOFipedia Christmas stockings for each dog. We are grateful to the AKC for its financial support that allows our residents to bring their pets with them when they enter the Emergency Shelter.

For more information on The Shelter’s kennel and how you can help CLICK HERE

 

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Thank you to the Marco Island Police Department for sponsoring a Shelter family for the holidays. Thanks to your kindness, this family will have a brighter holiday season. Below, Naples Police Chief and Shelter Board Member Tom Weschler, left, joined Shelter Executive Director Linda Oberhaus in thanking MIPD Chief Al Schettino and his staff.

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Naples Police Chief Tom Weschler, Shelter Executive Director Linda Oberhaus and Marco Island Police Chief Al Schettino.

 

A ribbon cutting for Bluebird Cottage, The Shelter’s sixth Transitional Housing cottage, was held Dec. 18, 2014. View the Video below.

Since 2008 The Shelter’s Transitional Housing (TH) program has provided safe, affordable, and supportive transitional housing for survivors of domestic violence and their children who are facing homelessness. It is the goal of Transitional Housing to maintain an empowerment-based, safe and secure living environment for domestic violence survivors.

The Shelter’s Transitional Housing program is comprised of six cottages where residents can live for up to 24 months with an array of supportive services. Prior to entry, adult residents meet with the TH Advocate to create individual service plans. Additionally, a weekly meeting schedule and participation in the weekly life skills group is coordinated. Service plan goals typically include increasing income, decreasing public assistance, and developing skills and abilities which empower the individual to build hope for the future; self sustain, and obtain permanent violence-free housing.

Click Here for more information on the Cottages and how you can get involved or contact Gissa Infante – ginfante@naplesshelter.org, 239-775-3862 ext. 224.

Long-time supporters Muffy and Warren Gill share their thoughts on planned giving and leaving a legacy for The Shelter.

Holiday ‘elves’ from the Naples Woman’s Club delivered hand-made stockings filled with goodies for Shelter residents.

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From left, Shelter Events Manager Susan Utz, Joy Buck, Shelter Community Education Manager Jason Young, Pat Limbach, Shelter Executive Assistant Karen Smith, Ivone Smith, Shelter Volunteer Coordinator Jamie Gerry and Lee Kraus.

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Cardner Colby Galleries

Thank you to Gardner Colby Galleries , which raised $3,300 for The Shelter! During the month of December, the gallery donated a portion of all gallery sales to The Shelter for Abused Women & Children and the United Arts Council of Collier County. If you are thinking of a special holiday present for yourself or someone special, this is a great opportunity for your gift to keep on giving.

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Gardner Colby Gallery kicked off the season of giving by hosting a holiday party for The Shelter for Abused Women & Children.

 

 

Michael Wynn, Sunshine President, and Linda Oberhaus, Executive Director for The Shelter, are hoping you will help us spread the word and help this worthy cause. Now through 12/31/14, we will donate $1.00 to The Shelter for every new like we receive on our page. Please help us by sharing this post with everyone you can and we can all make a difference.The Shelter provides services to women, men and children of all races, socio-economic status and religions who are survivors of domestic violence. They provided over 20,000 nights of shelter with 60 beds and 5 transitional cottages last year for those in need.

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What a great time we had during Shop for The Shelter, Dec. 7, hosted by Options Thrift Shoppe and Ronto Realty at Naples Square. Options ‘elves’ transformed the Naples Square Sales Gallery into a holiday boutique of brand new high-end designer wear donated by local department stores. Early estimates of this holiday shopping social topped $7,000, all of which will benefit The Shelter for Abused Women & Children.

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Thank you to the Naples Daily News for covering this wonderful event

(click for pdf of story)

By Kalhan Rosenblatt

NAPLES, Fla. – Rickie Klein knew there was one thing she wanted for the holidays this year: a party.

But not just any party — a party with a purpose. Klein, who is a guild member of the Shelter for Abused Women & Children and an Options Thrift Shoppe ambassador committee chair, teamed up with Naples Square Sales Gallery for the first ever “Light Up Your Holidays” benefit on Sunday.

“It was kind of spontaneous,” Klein said. “I saw the space and said it would make a fabulous venue for a party and (The Shelter for Abused Women & Children) is a fabulous organization.”

For $20, attendees could shop for new, high-end clothing and jewelry, snack on finger food, sip Champagne and socialize at the Naples Square Sales Gallery, all while helping The Shelter for Abused Women & Children and Options Thrift Shoppe, which is owned by the shelter.

“It was so close to the shelter, it just made perfect sense,” said Wanda Cross, director of sales for Naples Square.

All 150 tickets had sold out by Sunday afternoon, and the floor was packed with eager shoppers hoping to make a difference.

Brand new necklaces, hats, shoes and dresses from designers such as Saks Fifth Avenue and Jimmy Choo lined the halls of Naples Square.

“(The best part) is knowing we’re raising money for the shelter,” shelter Executive Director Linda Oberhaus said. “Our goal is to one day put ourselves out of business and end domestic violence.”

Many attendees, as well as volunteers, knew someone the shelter had helped.

“My husband works as a physician and he would see cases (of domestic violence),” said shelter volunteer and shopper Joanne Beightol. “We know people who have struggled with domestic abuse.”

Beightol, who brought her 16-year-old daughter Caera along, said she came out to the “Light Up Your Holidays” benefit to “put her money where her mouth is.”

“I like the fact that you’re buying clothes for your self but you’re helping women and children at the same time,” Caera said.

By 3 p.m. — the halfway mark of the two-hour affair — $5,000 had been raised, exceeding the original $4,000 goal. Klein said 100 percent of the money received from ticket sales would go directly to the shelter.

“We’re already planning on doing this again next year,” said Contract Data Administrator for Naples Square, Amy Schiffer. “We want to do tie-ins for other nonprofits. We’re excited about giving back.”

Carole Beauregard of Naples perused the clothing racks at “Light Up Your Holidays.” As a member of the guild, she said she convinced her girlfriends to come to the event. She also persuaded friend Ulrich Elben to donate his book, “Naples the Beautiful,” which was sold for $10 a piece.

“Every nickel counts for the shelter,” Beauregard said.

Klein said she drove Kaydee Tuff, communications manager for the shelter, “bonkers” putting on “Light Up Your Holidays,” but Tuff was grateful for her persistence.

“(Klein) definitely deserves all the credit,” Tuff said. “If it wasn’t for her, this wouldn’t have been possible.”

For Klein, knowing she’s able to be festive while giving back made the whole process worthwhile.

“You can feel the joy and happiness in the room,” Klein said. “You can feel the energy of women helping women.”

The Monarch Society held its annual appreciation luncheon in support of The Shelter for Abused Women & Children on Monday, Nov. 17, at Beach House at the Ritz Carlton, Naples. This year’s keynote speaker was Dr. Amanda Evans, Ed. D.  MSW Assistant Professor at Florida Gulf Coast University, who addressed the myths and realities of human trafficking.

See photo spread in Florida Weekly